Sunday, October 17, 2010

One should never judge a Person by first impression

Hey buddies! Recent past days ending of 3rd semester n at the start of 4rth semester I had strange experienced with mam sadia(mass com).

I had pitch grudges since I found her totally cruel for my side the reason behind this was at first she appeared as an invigilator in computer paper and snatched my paper undone with 20 blanks/objectives, later on she screamed n dint accept my apology …because I was asking girl sitting next beside me. later on  1 big news hammered my ears when I was told that same teacher going 2 be my masscom teacher as well…soon when I entered her class she again in loud vol said:”thelna chorey ur  jaldi aky bheteye…”this was enough for me n there I decided I won’t take her class any more ..i will shuffle to urdu mascom ,I even took 1 urdu mascom class .

But something knocked me later at this junction, I asked myself? m I running away from situation? why I can’t face the world n situation with its pressure..i pushed myself back! 

Therefore I started talking her class and I came across 1 more new experience that “A general opinion can of course be formed by his/her looks, manner and clothes, but that may prove deceptive. Man’s true self is hidden behind the veil of his external appearance, he wears many faces. The more sophisticated a man is, the more difficult is to understand and fathom him out.”

I myself calculate her true worth to understand to large extent by interpersonal communication in a friendly environment during her lectures by the time passes I felt more comfortable…with  saucily,lively environment.

Therefore I realized that this is really unjust to form a critical opinion adequately n selfishly.. “A teacher is  steerer of a ship who supposed to bear the whole burden on his shoulder of sailing the ship and reach to destination safely, encountering   problem and hardships, so sometime rigidity and strict discipline pertain to the well being of students and for their betterment.”

Guys! One more dimension worth consideration in this discussion is.. “It is not because things are difficult that we don’t dare; it is because we don’t dare that they are difficult”.

WISH U ALL THE BEST,
Luv ya

1 comment:

  1. Wow awesome topic – now that’s perspective! I think we often react in agreement or disagreement because of our emotions, but hearing another side, passionately presented, really makes us think!

    I get nervous when I see angry righteous mobs rushing to open bags of feathers and warm the tar. So often we understand only a small piece of the story and instead we let anger do the thinking for us.

    The commenter is so right. Where is the constitution in all this? And why are we so quick to let it be stepped on. Haven’t we had enough of that? Quite honestly, I’m sick of black and white and rush-to-judgment thinking. This is tough stuff with many layers. As much as I understand the frustration and anger, these are short-term reactions that don’t lead to sound long-term solutions.

    thanks zohra jabeen

    haseeb

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